Will sex improve our relationship?

You can probably guess where this scenario is heading. But what you may not realized is how dramatically sex would change things for teenagers - and not for the better.If you defy a physical law, such as the law of gravity, you suffer the consequences. the same is true if you defy a moral law, such as the one that states,"Abstain from fornication"What are the consequences of disobeying that command? The Bible says:" He that practices fornication is sinning against his own body". Three harmful effects that can come to those who engage in premarital sex. Its include such things as sexually transmitted disease, unwanted pregnancy, or loss of God's favor?Those certainly are devastating consequences that can come to anyone who violates God moral law regarding fornication.


Still, you might be tempted."Nothing will happen to me,' you could reason. After all, isn't everyone having sex? Your peers at school brag about their escapades, and they dont seem to be hurting. Perhaps, like Heather in the opening senario, you even fell that sex will make you and your partners closer. Besides who wants to be ridiculed for being a virgin? Isn't it better to give in?


Not so fast! First of all, not everyone in doing it. True, you may read statisctics indicating that an alarming number of youths are having sex. like other country, by the time they fisnish  high school 2 out of 3 youths are sexually active. But that also means that 1 out of 3-a sizable number-is not.Now, what about those who are? Researches have found that many such youth experience one or more of the following rude awakenings.


1. DISTRESS - Most youths who have engaged in premarital sex sat that they are regretted it afterwards.
2. DISTRUST - After having sex, each partner begins to wonder, "Who else has he/she had sex with?"
3. DISLOYALTY - After having sex, a boy is more likely to dump his girlfriend and move on to someone else.
4. DISILLUSIONMENT - Deep down, a girl wound have preferred someone who would protect her, not use her.


Many boys have said that they would never marry a girl they have sex with. Why? Because they prefer someone who is more chaste! Does that surprise you- perhaps even anger you? If so, whether you are a girl or a boy, remember this: the reality of premarital sex is far different from what is shown in movies and on TV. the entertainment industry glamorize teen sex and makes it look like true love. But don't be naive,! Those who would try to coax you into premarital sex are only looking out for their own interests.


After all, would anyone who truly loves you endanger your physical and emotional well-being?
And would anyone who truly cares for you tempt you to jeopardize your relationship with God.


The fact is, if you give in to premarital sex you are degrading yourself by giving away something of precious value. No wonder so many fell empty  and worthless afterward as if they've carelessly allowed a precious part of themselves to be stolen! Don't let that happen to you. If someone tries to coax you into sex by saying  ' If you love me, you'd do this," firmly reply " If you loved me, you' wont ask !"


Your body is far too valuable to give away. show that you have strength to character to obey God command to abstain from fornication. the if you do marry one day, you can have sex. and you'll be able to enjoy it fully without worries, regrets, and insecurities that are so often the aftermath of premarital sex.